Happy Convo

Dear my dummy sister ❤

Kakak is very happy for you that you finally graduated!  LOL
I was worry that the smart you would need to extend but well. You did it!

Good weather for a Convocation. [few years back, it was mine..] *OMG*
PS: Gonna admit I'm kinda aged. Too young to be old. duh!

Well, SEGi indeed is a business school and the campus is so nice (compare to local uni which for poor students like me )
Rush back and traveled for 12hours go and flow definitely worth it!
Next journey will be the career path.

Its not the ending .In fact, a great beginning for you to the second stage of life! 
Time to climb babe!!
Be stronger, tougher and even more independence please .. 
Something that you know you have to change to fit in this society.
Not about who you are, but its about who you wanted to be and where you wanted to go..

learning path

5in1 family photo (kurang1)

共勉之：-

1、不要奢望別人給你經濟上的任何幫助，錢對任何人都是不夠用的。（學會給予）

2、朋友幫你是善事，是道義；朋友不幫你也無可厚非，不該心懷怨尤，人家不欠你的！（學會理解）

3、要知道沒有人必須在你需要的時候幫你，只有你自己，所以讓自己獨立、堅強、快樂、幸福，才是你需要做的，畢竟只有自己必須和你生死與共，休戚相關。明白？（學會堅強）

4、不要看貧富交朋友，他有億萬家財跟你一毛錢關係都沒有，別把自己弄成哈巴狗。他也許一無所有卻可以把唯一的饅頭分給你。（學會分辨）

5、不要為了經濟富有的朋友疏遠了精神富有的朋友，慢慢你會明白，經濟上富裕的朋友可以帶你吃喝玩樂，也可以帶給你複雜紛亂的世俗煩惱，精神富有的朋友也許只能帶你去田野裡，去溪流畔，沒有美酒佳餚，沒有香檳、咖啡、沒有舞池，可是她能陪你一起奔跑、一起笑的像傻子。（學會自重）

Gambateh, xiao meimei..
Long way to go. Will be there for you always. in a way where you really need me. 

With love ,
❤ xoxo ❤

A Life

-MARCH with a new beginning-

After have a long break, indeed a long retirement break (aka pre-retirement life)
It's time to restart my engine , start to walk along the journey , leading to the way I supposed to be..

Been through phone interview, as expected. 
Decided to start everything all over again.
Life isn't fair, believe in give and take. 
Oh well.. Sacrificed : leaving the peoples I love the most in this beautiful city, a beautiful country where I belong to.❤❤
(PS: Not too late to start a brand new life at this age, right? i doubt..)

Still the same Sunshine :)

Independence, something that this lady here have to learn.
Direction sense is always her weakness wherever she goes.
Anyplace , she knows her destination well and clear, just somehow sometime she has no idea HOW and WHICH road to take. (This is the worse thing)
Often stuck in the middle of the journey but her fears , she can overcome. Just need a little more courage to made up her mind , take a leap of faith . (one step closer, else further ; who knows?)

In a NEW City, NEW people, NEW company, NEW environment, how much she can takes? 
They wonder..
Its still unknown. But one thing she made up her mind, no matter how tough this road gonna be , she has to take it. 
Because is her choice.. 

Welcome YC!

Learning.. Always a progress to retrieve herself to be a better person. 
Someone who will make her proud , is always herself. 

"Be the type of person you want to meet!"

Step-by-step..Fearless of Failure will make a better person.
She will never walk alone. 
(Blessed by GOD, And angels are always besides her.. you know who you are.)

Back to the reality..
Here is some thing would like to share with you guys.
1. What's the thing you need the most in Singapore?
✓  Ez-link card : to travel around , please reload at all MRT Station else 7-11.

✓   Hi! Card : Singtel sim card in Singapore . The rate is really LOW in buying daily data (SGD1=1Day with 1GB)

✓  SG-MRT (please dl this in your smart phone) : This apps is very useful in term of direction and calculation of time consume from A to B. 
There are 4 main lines in total so need to be aware of which is the inter-change station.

2. What's the culture?
Mostly are Chinese (Singaporean) here. No offence well I'm not a racist person either.
✓ Malays here are much more modern compared to Malaysian , they do dress up fashionably and barely hard can see tudung lady on the street .
✓  OL here like to wear flat instead of heels (all is about walking in this country, this is why less fatty you can see at SG ) *tsk* 
✓ Leisure time especially evening , you can see a lot joggers on the street (not jokers ok!) Heard that they have a IPPT (Individual Physical Proficiency Test) in National Services even after they completed the training. 
✓  No surprise if you see army on the street. Its compulsory for the teenagers guys to have a 2 years army training in SG. They were trained to be fit, matured and efficient. (No way we can compare NS in Malaysia. you know what i mean..) *wink*
✓  The way Singaporean hang their cloth -- in a awesome traditional way! with Bamboo stick!

Hang cloth in a SG way

3. SG Living cost.
Living cost here isn't really that high if you're not a high maintenance people.
I'm simple, I lead a simple ordinary life style. Shopping yes but I'm not high-end .
Let's see.. 
Rental is the only thing that cost a bomb if you're not staying with family here. 
Be a tenant, you need budget around $900 for a good room with fully furnished (air-cond,wifi,utility, kitchen, water heater, washing machine, facilities etc)
I got myself a big room with a reasonable rental, minimum u can get for a single room with only basic facilities (fan, bed etc) , definitely you need SGD 500 . 

my messy room with a Queen size bed, spacious enough

Food here are mostly hawker stall at food court that offer a cheap price. (around SGD4-SGD5) 

3 vege rice = SGD 3.50 

If you heading to cafe especially nice Korean Japan and special cuisine , you would need more then SGD30 for sure. 
Transportation not costly, from a station to another station max it can goes is only SGD3. And all the places here mostly are reachable by MRT. (walking distance)

4. Foreigners
You will be seeing there are lotsa foreigners working here. (Included me) :)
The main reason is due to the SGD Currency no doubt but the main thing each employee looking at is the career opportunity , career development. 
(PS: Less politic, more improvement)

Well let's see how things goes.. 
Learning to live alone in this busy city.

"Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone"

Things are always challenging at the beginning. 
Depends on how we see it, how we take it.
☂ There will always be a rainbow after the rain. *hope*

SG Raining season

*Starring at the opposite RED Light, believe there will always be a signal from God. 

Guiding me to the right way. Blessed! *

Leisure_Time

空闲记

珍惜拥有自己的时间， 放空的去体会、思考……

却有着“劳碌命”的俗称。 

病了：2个星期……（晕）

不争气的身体，

不健康的生活习惯（要改）

我，总爱把自己弄的糊里糊涂--充实？

往下滑，看看2013年的博文；也太对不起自己了。

曾经迷茫的我，迷失的，都得找回来！

×× 2014 年，要爱自己多一点！♥♥（相信）××

NEW BOOK : 2014 :

2014 年，写下新的一页……

×× The Best Is Yet To Come ××

总结篇

2013年， 经历了很多，也体会了很多 ……
一个人 - 拉着大卡车， 很吃力地绕场走了一大圈。
人群很多：有的会配合、有的会喝彩；有的会领导、有的会误导；有的是客人、有的是贵人……
心里的忐忑与矛盾－－往往被这繁华的都市，复杂的社会，虚伪的自信给掩饰了。（可悲）
但无论如何，得呈现出自己最好的一面，比自己的以前更卓越一些，一些就好了……

人们常说：“太在意别人 ，自己也会受伤。”
那你呢？ （反问）

事（失）业篇：

失业了一个月，放弃了我曾经很热爱的一份工作。虽然这个决定不被认同，但了解我的人会懂。

我很肯定，我的决定是对的。谢谢你对我的考验…

呆在家里颓废的日子 ……几乎让我忘了时间滴滴答答的过、甚至忘了星期几。（连自己的生日都得让朋友提醒，好过分哦！）

感谢这个月的清醒，让我好好的看清楚一些事情。

时间，是最珍贵的。而我很庆幸，能够在这样的环境下失业。

也许你会想说，有什么了不起？我只觉得嘛，给明年的我，就不会那么放肆了！

因为，

计划的人生，不好走；长大了，要当心的事一萝萝……

看着银行存款数额渐渐少了，新闻报章却什么都涨价。（无奈）

××　休息，是为了走更长远的路。这路……真的无止尽，一定要找到适合自己的路！××

“加油！”

亲情篇：

我的家人，为我的付出－－牺牲太多太多了。　

爸爸：不停唠叨我曾经的工作时间。（他的关心总不说出口，男人嘛！）

妈妈：明示我身边的朋友－－怂恿我辞职。

大姐：每天无怨无悔的等待，耐心的包容我工作、应酬、开会的时间。

大妹：独立的她，偶尔让人担心。

小妹：是妈妈的后备－－唠叨、照顾、这可爱富有母爱的小妹。

小狗：每天都会迎接我回来，睡觉也会爬起来吠、吠。

这些颓废的时间，都呆在家，陪着家里的王太后。

王太后的生活，比工作的我们还要忙碌：早午晚－－没休息过。

家里的一切，她了如指掌；女儿的一切，她试着了解。

为了我们，她把自己放在最后一位：学习用我们的语言、现代的科技－－很努力融入我们的现代化。妈妈是伟大的！

她，为这家付出了一辈子；而我们，却不能给予她什么承诺。（路，还得努力、吃力地走下去。）

××妈妈要的幸福很简单，但是金钱买不到的－－陪伴她的时间。××

友情篇：

“我們聊著天

我們約在當年　我们爱的咖啡店

真的　可惜了昨天　當時拍的好多照片

一天　累積成一年”

感谢你们对我的不离不弃。 反省了：这些日子忽略了身边重要的一切。（面壁思过）

感谢你们对我的主动、了解、体谅与包容……

生活圈子越来越显然分明了。 必须懂得朋友与同事的分区：得慢慢学习着成长。

你们给予的鼓励，让我更有自信；肯定，让我更了解自己；认同，让我更有动力；聆听，让我更有价值；倾诉，让我如释重负……

现实的社会：大家都有各的事要忙，没有谁会为了谁而活，更没有谁会在乎那些不该在乎的事－－那，只会伤了自己。

朋友让我了解自己，希望你们会幸福快乐！　

××　你们的幸福，感染了我－－更幸福××　

感情篇：

××相遇，不会是偶然……虽然那一瞬间之---过客。××